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There is so much written about the need for self development, but why bother? The reasons are so simple, if we don’t bother to improve on who we are then we remain static, unchanging. Is this a bad thing? In my opinion, and the opinion of many of the “masters” of self development, yes it is.
It is the nature of man to change, to evolve, to grow. If we cease growing then what is there? A child in a man’s or woman’s body? Is remaining childlike in thought and deed enough for you? If it is then well done, you have found your nirvana. If however you realise that your potential has barely been tapped then it is time for you to explore the avenues available for self development. It’s aim, to become the best that you can be, for this is all that can be asked of ourselves, by ourselves or anyone else.

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I have included a short except from a blog I received today and I think it is worth reading since it examines self development and the reasons to be bothered about it.
EXCERPT with permission of Life Change 90:
“For the best return on your money, pour your purse into your head.” ― Benjamin Franklin
“Have you ever wanted more? More of anything? For any reason?
Have you ever considered why that was?
It is human nature for people to be explorers, inventors, creators or to wish they were. It’s a human evolutionary trait and has ensured the survival of the species so far, and enshrined man as the top species on the planet, by way of adaptation, versatility with living environments, and ability to either change to suit an environment, or change the environment to suit man.
Whilst you might not think that this affects you, it’s the same drive that makes you want to stretch just that little bit, be that little bit better, score a little higher, to want more……..”

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No matter who we are, no matter our circumstances, we can all aspire to be a “little bit more” as he says. A little bit more may be all we can aim for at first, but we may be able to aim for a little more after we have attained our first goal. I like the idea.
“When you concentrate your energy purposely on the future possibility that you aspire to realize, your energy is passed on to it and makes it attracted to you with a force stronger than the one you directed towards it.” ― Stephen Richards
Blessings Susan x
© Susan Jamieson 2013
I like it. I definitely feel most “alive” when I am striving for some out-of-reach goal.
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Thank you – I’ve always thought about it, done it, but hadn’t put it into those words until I was involved in a few courses. It still appeals to me that we can, if we choose to, really make ourselves into whatever is best for us. Choosing the right options of course 😉 Susan x
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This reminds me of a quote about “where your passion meets the needs of the world – is where you should be.” Paraphrasing, but in conjunction with your great post.
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Thanks Theresa, you are so right – there are so many quotes and one is sure to be the one which gets to you. The important thing is that it does reach you and we then act on it. Many thanks Susan x
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