“Whatever you do or dream you can do – begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it.”
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Until the middle of November we are in a time of working through old hurts, pain from the past, especially related to family issues, and I haven’t been immune to this process. In case anyone is wondering how I know, I’ve felt mired in the past, immersed in sadness and making life unpleasant for my husband.
I’m presuming the later since he wouldn’t admit it. His response to my many apologies for my miserable attitude was simply, “I love you, I’m your husband and I want to be here for you”. Pretty cool, huh. I know I’m one very loved and lucky woman.
For myself it’s felt pretty uncomfortable. I don’t know if I’ve managed to clear all the old hurts and sadness but I’ve certainly made a huge start. Yesterday I started writing. It was going to be a small blog, I wasn’t in the right head space, or so I thought, to write anything larger. Then my fingers started to run across the keyboard and my mind was in neutral. I wasn’t thinking about what I was writing about. It felt as though it was being dredged from somewhere deep inside, a place which was full of pain and anguish and carefully hidden away from the world. My first taste of automatic writing.
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I’m not really a sharer when it comes to those deep personal issues. Experience had taught me it wasn’t a good idea. For most of my adult life I’ve very carefully crafted a vault, deep and wide, secured by unbreakable walls and locked in so many different ways without keys that I’d supposed no-one would be able to get in there and see what I was hiding there. Every hurt, every pain and disappointment, and every loss had been shoved, squished and poked in there and the lid battened down tight. I didn’t want to go there or look into that abyss so why would anyone else?
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However, for the past week or more I’ve floated in that self-same abyss during my sleepless nights and during my unwatched waking moments. I’ve avoided answering the question of “what’s bothering you?” and tried to pretend all was well. It appears my Higher Self had other ideas in mind. So I began my blog and my fingers did the walking and talking. When I had finished I knew, on some deep visceral level that it was time to let it out. It didn’t matter if anyone else read it, (except my husband), but it was a huge release for me.
This morning I woke up in agony. Quite laughable really, but all it meant was the old pain was working its way out too. So much pain carried for so long, is it any wonder it felt so bad. The cups of tea, lashings of hugs and love and I knew it was time to do this. I’ve really made a start to clear all that old and buried pain and agony out. I don’t need to hold onto it any longer. I’m in a safe place now and I have someone I trust to lean on and love me and let this horror loose and clear it to “the light”.
I feel lighter than I have for many years. Thank you Ray for loving me and providing a safe haven for me to “let go” and thank you Nicole Cody, for giving me so many tools and the courage to let the past go. (The Full Moon Releasing and Becoming Ceremonies have been an unbelievable ‘key’). Tomorrow is a brighter day, I know there are many more ‘releasings’ to happen but I know that I can do it now. THAT, is a truly awesome feeling.
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“If you paint in your mind a picture of bright and happy expectations, you put yourself into a condition conducive to your goal. “
Norman Vincent Peale
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